Slut Shamer

20 Oct

I was at the library a while back, minding my own business, when I heard a voice. “I can’t believe you’re wearing that! You look like a whore! No one will ever take you seriously dressed that way!” It was … Read More »

Pieces of Me

27 Sep

Last year my therapist Aja brought up something called the IFS (Internal Family Systems) model. The basic premise is to heal the wounded parts of ourselves so we can be more understanding and compassionate towards ourselves and others. These are … Read More »

Can People Change?

13 Sep

We’ve all heard the saying “Once a cheater, always a cheater” and that the best way to predict future behavior is past behavior. But does that mean that we’re simply destined to repeat the mistakes of our past, no matter … Read More »

The Great Unknown

27 Aug

This article is undoubtedly going to be both the most difficult and most important one I’ve ever written. It is an attempt to explain the inexplicable, and it requires your willingness to suspend your disbelief, if you so choose. It … Read More »